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Written by Jennifer Nickert
Men say many things, some sexy, some sweet, some
annoying, but these are the things that drive most women crazy.
I don’t mean in the good way either.
The first thing that comes to mind is when men
call/text/email and say,
“Want to hang out.”
You may thing I am overreacting to this simple term, but I’m
not. Almost every time
a man says this, it’s code for, “Let’s do some sort of activity
until I can get you naked.”
If it was a genuine offer to spend time together
they would ask if ask us if we’d
like to go to dinner, meet for a drink, or go to a movie.
More direct, less vague.
The Hang Out term also causes confusion, we never know if it’s a date or are we friends
spending time together.
I never say yes to anyone asking me to “Hang Out.”
The
next annoying term is,
“Let’s cuddle,” or “I just want to cuddle with you.”
Cuddling is awesome, I love leaning up against someone
special and watching a movie or talking, but most men have an
entirely different definition of the word cuddle.
Cuddling to me is curling up together, holding hands, just
being together in close proximity with great affection.
Men’s definition of the word seems to be: Getting as close
as possible so they can make out and touch us until we get naked.
“I’m
busy,” is another annoying thing me and my friends hear from
men. My girlfriend
went on a date, she had a great time, and then her date told her
he is so busy with work and kids that he really doesn’t have time
to date. 2% of
the time this is a truthful answer, but the other 98% of the time
its lies men tell to avoid the truth.
The truth is they didn’t find us amazing enough to make
time for us in their lives.
Ladies, if a guy likes you he will go without sleep or food
to fit you in his life.
I get insulted the minute I hear one of my friends tell me
they heard this or the couple of times I got this lame speech.
The two times I got the busy life speech, it was
from men I met on a dating site.
I repeat, on a dating site.
Makes me want to slap my head.
No Drama.
This term appears in more personal ads than any other.
Who wants drama???
I think this is way over used by men more so than women.
I am starting to wonder if they know what it means.
Most men seem to think “drama” is anything unpleasant in
life. Get over
yourself, life happens.
Life is fun, complicated, and sometimes difficult.
Putting this in your ad won’t make the drama not happen.
If a woman is prone to complicating life, whether with
causing conflict by gossiping, petty arguments with friends, baby
daddy situations, she isn’t going to tell you she does this.
For the record anyone prone to drama never sees that about
themselves.
In my opinion men are more prone to cause drama
then women. If men
would be direct and tell us the hard truth over a soft lie we
could all avoid a lot of conflict.
Being rejected stinks, but we cry and move on, but most men
are chickens and they do the “silent treatment.”
That means they drop off the radar, no calls, no more sweet
texts, no more dates, no explanations, no closure.
Or they start fibbing, “I’m just swamped with work,” “My
kids are over all the time,” “I’m just too tired to go out.”
Women have Spidey senses and we know this is bull.
Personally, I just move on, but I wasn’t always this mature
and from the stories from my girlfriends and men, a lot of women
don’t so this. They
start to stalk to prove they aren’t crazy and they know you are
full of crap. Most of
the time we are right.
So, guys, you brought it on yourself, all this drama is yours!
Man up next time, tell the truth as politely and directly
as possible and avoid the hurt and drama.
Lastly, the words no woman wants to hear and
every man wishes he had the balls to say, “Dutch.”
Yes, it’s practical, yes we get you are worried about being used
as a meal ticket, but it screams insincere and cheap.
We get it, we get it, but I repeat we do not want to hear
it! Unless you have a
legitimate reason for asking to go dutch, like loss of job or some
other kind of hardship, be classy and spoil the lady.
We just eat salad anyways (LOL).
The bottom line is treat all women with honesty
and respect and the world and your love life will be a better
place.
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